Acceptance over expectations is key in my recovery. It's also the hardest.
When it comes to trusting someone, what they say or do is very hard after ones lost the trust in someone. Taking some situations one day at a time. I do my best to Accept what is and not Expect anything. Loving someone you don't trust is very hard. So I have to trust in myself and my higher power to keep me strong and guide me through these times of distrust. I put my acceptance above my expectations.
Meetings and my sponsor help me in the weakest moments. Keep it simple everyone.